Reconciling this with the doctrine of temple marriage is trickier. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. I tried my best, every bit of me…. The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage. It is the greatest sadness of her life. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. I don't think we could have a real conversation about those points either. If kids ever came into the picture though, I wouldn't want to be isolated from them psychologically or banned from walking my daughter down the aisle someday. The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. I don't know how to manage the resentment.
So there's THAT to look forward to. There are two ways to go about this. Would I like to have him by my side. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. You should expect that this will define your relationship with her. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. A forum for ex-mormons and others who have been affected by mormonism to share news, commentary, and comedy about the Mormon church. I entertained without him, but with frequent phone calls, lol.
With such high standards of perfection, Mormon girls want a man who validates their efforts and confidently provides directionвa man who expects them to be beautiful. I felt her fear, everything she's said, I said. Not sure how much longer I can go on, like this As the physician, I found this blog searching for ways to make my spouse feel more important.
If you decide to stay. I think the most important thing is to bring up the issues as questions rather than points as why she's wrong. Let them explore and see the many people who love Heavenly Father and serve him with all their heart. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that.